if someone (older than you) hurts you and he or she is the person whom you respect from core of heart. Suddenly, someday he or she says you "stop showing your rspect to me, i don't need your respect". then what should we do at that time or stage ?…
Question Answered as of 8 Months Ago by
Reverend Jim,
deceptikon,
iamthwee
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ehm ... Iamthwee ... what if the OP actually was female? would you still resent it if she found a vagina instead of "two egg shaped objects"? :)
Truth be told, I actually had to do a bit of digging to figure out if the OP was, in fact a guy. In all honestly he does give off the vibe of being a hysterical little girl, I don't know whether I want to slap him or ask him if he wants to go shopping for handbags?
Seriously though, to the OP, or the other guy who appears to be masquerading as the OP under a different alias (apologies if I am wrong but your writing styles are very similar) here's the deal.
Your rep on an online internet forum is meaningless. I'm sorry to burst your bubble but in reality no one cares. Now you seem like the type who enjoys whining, maybe you even get a rush of endorphins from it, who knows.
Now raise of hands anybody who knows someone like this in real life? Yeah I'm sure we all do, and we all think about how irritating that person is and how they don't contribute anything to our lives or even their own lives. The lucky thing is we as human are conscious and capable of making CHOICES. We can either CHOOSE to be whiners all or lives or CHOOSE not to be.
If you choose the former, go ahead and join the forums whiners.com.
Good luck.
iamthwee
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@daifol do you think these all posts are good for daniweb's name ?
This is the Geek's Lounge and I respect people's rights to start topics on most subjects. The fact that 'deleted poster' chose to bang on about some online slight is frankly ridiculous and I treated the post in the manner it deserved (IMO). This poster had a history of sending hate mail via PM and spoof-hijacking another user's identity. Definitely an individual this site could do without. I just hope that this idiot/loser (etc. delete as appropriate) hasn't assumed a new identity and re-joined the site.
diafol
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hahahaha... it's okay! but why do you hate him/her alot ? :p :-D
I don't hate the person, I pity him more than anything. He seemed to be an emotionally immature individual who had trouble expressing himself. He fawned over certain members of the forum, using creepy language and showering them with ridiculous praise. Then when somebody else had the temerity to criticize him, he lost the plot and started on his hate campaign. As I said, an individual we could do without. But, if said person were to behave, I'm sure he could become an useful contributor. Here's living in hope.
diafol
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OK - my last post in this thread. To explain. If banned user, 'I_m_rude' or whatever his name was, decided to re-join with a new username and then behaved in a decent manner (not sending hate mail etc), I'm sure that he would be welcomed as a good contributor. What this site most definitely does not need is some flavour of troll.
Seeing as we wouldn't necessarily know the user's new identity, he would have a second chance at being a nice person, without carrying the stigma of being a fool in the past. So - he can go away forever or come back as a nice guy - I don't care which.
I hope that's clear enough for you.
diafol
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lol.. okies.. now imthewee it's you turn.. come back.. where are you? we are waiting for you here. come on!!
Since you don't seem to be taking the hint, I'll lay it down in no uncertain terms. We know that you're nitin1 and you're doing a piss poor job of pretending that you're not. If you can't let things go, why did you delete your account in the first place?
If you deleted your account because you couldn't change your name, for future reference any moderator can do that for you if you ask. If you deleted your account in protest, I can assure you that nobody cares.
On a side note, every one of us has done or said something we regret, but you don't need to delete your account and start over. Despite how it may feel to you, your embarrassing moments are easily forgettable to everyone else. Unless you habitually repeat the same mistakes over and over, everyone will quickly forget about past transgressions because they're simply not that important.
p.s. No, I won't explain in further detail every word I've used in this post. :rolleyes:
deceptikon
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^^I am actually quite impressed by your reply. I'm sure we've all done something stupid at some point and it's great to be given another chance.
Just learn from your mistakes and be a little more thick skinned in the future... You still have a good chance at being a good contribution to the community.
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Wow I can actually be nice!? I feel so dirty. LOL
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