Have done everything but still not ranking/ not getting traffic, reasons could be -
1) Lack of web strategy / approach
2) You are not targeting the right keywords
3) Web Design is not appealing...

check http://www.kaboodle.com/

Sorry, but I will not recommend any tool to find rankings as they can't be reliable OR can give exact results.

So, I suggest to do it by yourself manually.

Why not you ask your visitors about that. Just make a link to get their own ideas for your website coding.

What you think?

Just let them (search engines) index your website, there is no need to submit in every search engine.

Place your website at web page which is already indexed. Best way to let Search engines know...

Go and submit your website in other social bookmarking websites. And let people know about your websites, show your websites in forums.

how we can use "igg.com"?

happy new year Rudi.

Start it with free directories submission and social bookmarking.

I have done SEO for a wedding website in 2006. What I have done is the article submissions which comes...

Furl, Reddit, Sphinn, Stumbleupon and Startaid.com are some of the best.

nice contribution to forum.

Check this to know what is SEO? (http://www.neuroseoservices.com/articles/what_is_seo.html)

Every, mostly all adult website have a webmaster corner for LE and banner exchange. Try it.

Welcome here.

So, you want some more website which can provide you the free space to write your blog entries.. You can use blogger.com and wordpress.com in this context.

best of luck.

You can sell them, if they (emails) really works.

first, you need to update yourself with what really web promotion OR SEO is ?

Go for that kind of questions in forums, and read some good articles regarding SEO and web marketing..

Best of Luck.

Always choose a relevant and quality websites for link exchanging.

It is obvious to see different results on Y and G as they are different search engines with having different search algorithms.

But by keeping good titles and link building, you can hope for good...

I don't think, it would give you traffic. But yes, if your website is somehow related to the web forum (means if you have SEO website and you are getting links from seo forums by sign.. ) then you...

You can go for free directories submissions, social bookmarking and article submissions to get free traffic to your website.

best of luck.

3K visitors per day for free...

Can't possible for a new website... and if its an old website... and haven't been yet promoted....

Then, you should invest some money for that no. of visitors...

well, nice contribution.

Quality content with lots of back links...

If you done with content, make step on Directories submissions, classifieds, PRs and link exchanging. Mind the relevancy in all things.

You can also use PPC advertising for instant visitors - as you say - you want skyrocket traffic.

It can give good exposure to your website if its a new website.