First, one does not tell Narue to 'get over herself'. Narue knows what she is doing.

Two, if you want to write shoddy code that ignores problems and processes a CSV file, just go learn perl...

I learned C++ 5 years ago from Accelerated C++ by Koenig and Moo. It's pretty good, and gets you introduced to the language relatively quickly (it's not a really thick book).