I can't just turn in a "Tutorial: how to create messengers". That's not the topic, sadly :/
What I had in mind when writing "I need a framework" was:

title: blabla
chapter 1: gonna discuss stuff...

I figured this topic doesn't really fit here, but daniweb is one of the biggest IT community I know and I found help here several times, too, so maybe someone will help me out :)

After years of...