I have seen a.exe in process list and killed it but couldnt find program itself, when i try to run a scanner it kills it (avast!, hijack this, maulwarebites, MRT.exe all killed once scan started) and i have tried renaming M-bam.exe to xxxxx.exe and varations of this, i just had to format my c:/ drive because this same virus! please if you can help, help me! ( i also tried all scanners in safemode)

hi ,start by going to the right section of the forum ,
go here .and read the read me's and follow there instructions
http://www.daniweb.com/forums/forum64.html