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Just thought i would put my 2 cents in.

One way to stop a site from comming up is to add it to your HOSTS file... An example entry would be:

127.0.0.1 www.porn.com

make sure that you put the 127.0.0.1 before any site...

you can find the HOSTS file by just doing a search. Open it with notepad or wordpad.

after you save the file try to go to the site... poof it is gone
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Originally Posted by dewman
Just thought i would put my 2 cents in.

One way to stop a site from comming up is to add it to your HOSTS file...
Unfortunately though:

- You have to do that for each and every site that you want to block.

- You would (obviously) have to know the URL of every site that you want to deny access to.

- The kid could remove the host file entries in less time than it took to put them there.
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Unfortunately, one of the drawbacks of programs like Cybersitter, NetNanny, etc. is that they can actually block legitimate sites and/or content. Their filter lists are not perfect, and can sometimes be a bit too "conservative".
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well... switch to a secure windows and deny access to the hosts file... come on people... there are always ways to do things... there are always ways to undo things also... but set it up correctly and it is not likely that the child is going to be able to undo it.
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Hello. I'd like some advice on simple Internet controls for a 16-year-old who habitually visits porn sites. I monitor him closely, but if I step out of the room even briefly, I find porn sites in the history. He gets grounded or whatever, banned from the computer, promises he won't do it again, needs the Internet for schoolwork, and the whole cycle starts again. I tried a ContentWatch trial, but it was unwieldy. I read the thread from Ambalee, about the futility of trying to control an adult partner's porn addiction. This is different, as a youngster is involved and I also have a 12-year-old who is overhearing all this. It's very disturbing and I could use some help.

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Hi dfederman I know how you feel with your teenager .. been thier and it is not easy but don't give up. take a look at a site www.parental-web-control.com you will find some good tips which will help you.
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well... switch to a secure windows and deny access to the hosts file... come on people... there are always ways to do things... there are always ways to undo things also... but set it up correctly and it is not likely that the child is going to be able to undo it.
We try, believe me we try. I suggest you read this topic again with a more open mind. what we are trying to show is that it is IMPOSSIBLE to get a machine to perform this task (blocking children from internet porn) for you. The problem is not one which is related to computing methods. It's one which is related to parenting methods and the effectiveness of communication between parents and their children.

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Ya know what, so what if Netnany or the like is too restrictive!. The reason it's there to start with is you have a kid who can't help himself. The consequences are he has to deal with a filter. You want the filter off? Get it together. There...that's my 2 cents.
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One idea is to disconnect and remove the internet cable during the homework sessions, or put a call restrictor on the phone line which prevents using certain phone numbers (dialup) without dialing a password. I did this years ago when I had kids at home.
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Most likely the teen is using the net for research (just researching some stuff he shouldn't be in the midst of what he should be).

I think giving him his own computer, if connected to the net, will just encourage the behavior, though it would keep the offensive material away from the rest of the family.

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