I was actually expecting some valuable suggestion from csgal, since this thread is for promotion of a women forum.

I would write an artilce on a topic of interest to women and submit it too a few dozen article directories. Here is a list of article directories to submit your article to:

http://www.unlimitedtraffic.net/articledirectories.html

Don't forget to include a resource box linking back to your site.

I know, this seems like a lot of work, but it's free and effective.

Good luck!