Well you might want to get rid of some of the fancy stuff on your site. Like dont compromise the design just dont have so many scripts and flash so the page loads quicker and google can read it better. I like your design though. Also when I click on most of the links it tells me that those places dont exist which means you probably arent done. You shouldnt launch a site until 90% of the content is available. So all That search engines are reading is your home page and nothing else. I would advertise on different link exhanges and stuff possibly here. Umm the way you can get a lot of traffic is with a podcast about like running or designing websites. Put some ads on youtube and google video it worked for diggnation. Other than that just read up on search engine optimization.

thanks, i think the page loads slow due to my hosting, its kind of a terrible company i purchased from

Yea I was wondering because you had it set to preload the images which usually makes it faster. Another thing is you might want to invest some time into learning div/css designs instead of tables because that is what a lot of people are looking for. Most gaming sites which seems like a big portion of your target audience still use tables and just fancy graphics.