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ABCs OF BEING A FATHER

 
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A - Always trust them to God's care
B - Bring them to church
C - Challenge them to high goals
D - Delight in their achievements
E - Exalt the Lord in their presence
F - Frown on evil
G - Give them love
H - Hear their problems
I - Ignore not their childish fears
J - Joyfully accept their apologies
K - Keep their confidence
L - Live a good example before them
M - Make them your friends
N - Never ignore their endless questions
O - Open your home to their visits
P - Pray for them by name
Q - Quicken your interest in their spirituality
R - Remember their needs
S - Show them the way of salvation
T - Teach them to work
U - Understand they are still young
V - Verify your statements
W - Wean them from bad company
X - Expect them to obey
Y - Yearn for God's best for them
Z - Zealously guide them in biblical truth

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Re: ABCs OF BEING A FATHER

 
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>>X - Expect them to obey

children are not our slaves.
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I'm shocked The Dude. I think this is your first post that isn't just regurgitating other people's efforts with a link. It's a cut and paste job, but that's a step in the right direction. Maybe one day you'll have a thought of your own.

>A - Always trust them to God's care
>B - Bring them to church
>E - Exalt the Lord in their presence
>P - Pray for them by name
>Q - Quicken your interest in their spirituality
>S - Show them the way of salvation
>Y - Yearn for God's best for them
>Z - Zealously guide them in biblical truth
I'm seeing a lot of bible beater repetition here.

>X - Expect them to obey
Bad advice. Expect your children to obey and they'll rebel. Earn their trust and they'll listen to you.
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What happended to
1. Test that you are not reproductively challanged
2. If 1 is false, say bye bye to your fatherhood dream
3. Get a Girlfriend
4. Test that she is not reproductively challanged
5. Repeat 3 and 4 until 4 is true
6. Get Married (I am a conservative)
7. Do it without protection until the wife gets pregnant
and those stuff?

Must be difficult to fit it into the alphabet I guess.
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Re: ABCs OF BEING A FATHER

 
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Originally Posted by Narue View Post
I'm shocked The Dude. I think this is your first post that isn't just regurgitating other people's efforts with a link. It's a cut and paste job, but that's a step in the right direction. Maybe one day you'll have a thought of your own.
haha...

Originally Posted by Narue View Post
>A - Always trust them to God's care
>B - Bring them to church
>E - Exalt the Lord in their presence
>P - Pray for them by name
>Q - Quicken your interest in their spirituality
>S - Show them the way of salvation
>Y - Yearn for God's best for them
>Z - Zealously guide them in biblical truth
I'm seeing a lot of bible beater repetition here.
Yea, whats up with that? All 8 of these are dumb things to do as a father..

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>X - Expect them to obey
Bad advice. Expect your children to obey and they'll rebel. Earn their trust and they'll listen to you.
Naw, u just gotta beat them until they obey
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What happended to
1. Test that you are not reproductively challanged
2. If 1 is false, say bye bye to your fatherhood dream
3. Get a Girlfriend
4. Test that she is not reproductively challanged
5. Repeat 3 and 4 until 4 is true
6. Get Married (I am a conservative)
7. Do it without protection until the wife gets pregnant
and those stuff?

Must be difficult to fit it into the alphabet I guess.
hahaha.. I guess that would be hard to put into the alphabet.. but it would be easy to write code
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>>X - Expect them to obey

I think that those who take issue with this one confuse the point being made.

Consider school. No obedience in any of the kids makes for a crappy education. And I don't think that it's just handed out on the first day of Kindergarten and then they're good to go.

Or other matters such as "Don't steal" or "Don't smoke". "Expect" obedience, as in "this is the preferred outcome or choice".

I think the intent of this one relates to teaching trust and respect.
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Originally Posted by Ancient Dragon
children are not our slaves.
YA i guess your right mayte
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Originally Posted by Narue View Post
>A - Always trust them to God's care
>B - Bring them to church
>E - Exalt the Lord in their presence
>P - Pray for them by name
>Q - Quicken your interest in their spirituality
>S - Show them the way of salvation
>Y - Yearn for God's best for them
>Z - Zealously guide them in biblical truth
I'm seeing a lot of bible beater repetition here.
...And what's wrong with that?
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Narue was trying to explain her hate of christians.. lol jp
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