Well. I'd reccomend you try the following, starting at finder...
1. Either go up to view, then down to view options or just command+j.
2. Shrink the icon size to the smallest they get (16x16)
3. Position the labels on the right.
4. Make the text 10 pixels
5. Then tell it to keep arranged by kind or whatever you want.
That's how I keep my desktop in order.