Hello,
Actually i do not know what stage you are but nagios is the right choice for monitoring. Especially you do not want to pay thousands of dollars to other softwares. And you can do whatever with nagios.
We use Nagios+Opsview to monitor our systems. now there are about 400 server and services over 2 thousands that we actively monitor!
I think it is not diffucult to install and configure nagios. But i don't know about Gentoo Linux! We use Centos Linux.
That's really great to use open sourse software

Centos+nagios+opsview+mysql, ...
And very informative to work with open source software. I learn a lot.
if you want me to help you, i will try to
Of course i am not expert on this systems but i am trying to experince and learn much!
Anyway,
Goodbye