quick update2
i changed at files
slapd.conf
ldap.conf
the
TLSVerifyClient demand and put it on the try option... both
so now it works..... but i am not sure is the right way...
nway now i face another problem
i cant login to the ldap through the website....
any ideas..
(sorry for the multiple posts...but i think people who would like to try and do what i did will be helped cause thinks on google about this subject are really insufficient)