I've been experiencing MSN software difficulties, when I add someone on MSN, or if they add me, it says
'You're done!
It looks like [email]XXX@hotmail.com[/email] doesn't use Messenger yet(they actually do!). We sent an e-mail message to them with inttructions on how to connect with you on Messenger and on Windows Live.'
hi, i feel you pain ,but i don't use messenger ,but suggest with a software specific problem like yours you might get better help here . http://www.msghelp.net/