They have Cox cable internet. Friends have advised me not to connect my laptop to their cable modem for the risk that it will mess up their internet connection.
It probably won't do anything to
their setup, but you might have to reconfigure
your computer to get it to work, as DSL and Cable often use different connectivity protocols (PPPoE vs DHCP, to be specific) and DSL providers often require installing special connectivity software on your computer. Even so, plugging your computer in to the cable modem shouldn't change the cable connection; the worst that would happen is that it won't work with
your computer.
If you do try it, do it in this order:
* Turn off the modem and the computers.
* Unplug their computer from the modem and connect yours.
* Turn on the modem first; let it go through its startup "dance" and stabilize (usually, most of the lights on the modem will turn solid green a that point).
* Turn on your computer, let
it boot fully, and then try to connect to the Internet.
My computer has always detected an open-access wireless network near their house somewhere, and as far as I can tell, it is from the McDonald's down the street...
Troubleshooting connection problems involving someone else's WiFi network is often a frustrating and futile endeavor, as you have no knowledge of (or control over) what's happening on the business end of that network. Among other possibilities, lax network security (which has now been tightened up) may have allowed you to connect before, but we've no way of really knowing
what has changed.
Now here's the weirdest part: it is still connected to the detected wireless network. It shows I AM connected to the wireless network, but it isn't letting me connect to any internet service providers/browsers.
Not weird at all; that's actually quite common. Joining a WiFi
network only means that you've been allowed to establish a wireless communication link with that network's wireless access device; it
does not mean that you have also been granted passage to that network's Internet gateway device. Getting that Internet access often demands passing other security checkpoints within the network's structure.
We want to be able to both be online together, but it seems impossible without the wireless access or without a router.
That's correct; specifically- you need a router in order to connect more than one computer at a time to normal residential Cable or DSL services.
How can I solve the wireless problem? I need my internet access working...
If the Internet access is important enough, being able to connect both computers at the same time is the most desirable situation, and connecting your computer directly to their modem won't work, you'll need to buy a wireless router (they're relatively inexpensive and easy to install).