base on the issue i have highlighted in red, those are the items you need to pay close attention to.
first are all the ram stick the same clock speed and compatible with each other.
next are you using 300W PSu or 530W. what PCI-e card do you have attached to the pc.
remove the ram stick, clean each and user Only the 256 to boot the pc. then shut down and do the same for ONE of the 512. (Remove the 256 first) next verify you PCI-3 is getting enough power. if you remove all item and start up bare bone then the problem points to you MObo. let us know what happened
Heres the story in a little bit of detail:
RAM: All the RAM sticks are compatiable with each other, secondly they do NOT have to be paired on this motherboard as it has to with most others, third yes they are all the same clock speed and are designed to be run at 633MHz, the mobo just underclocked them for more stability.
PSU: so far, i have taken out the 530W PSU and 8800GTS, the PSU currently installed is powerful enough to power the system, 300W.
PCI-E: none currently installed b/c mobo not detecting it. not even my 7600GS!
Bare bone results: i have tried this twice, looks very bad on my end. still had to hold down the power buttons about 20 times just to get it to POST so i could enter the BIOS and check everything there.
looks like my mobo. i will find out at the end of the week when i go to price a new one, perhaps buy one.
thanks everyone for the tips!