After the one time of being able to get the system to boot in 'safe mode', it then wouldn't boot again in any mode.
I couldn't get it to do ANYTHING!!
I do give my THANKS to all that tried to help me-I have given up and am having someone work on it. Luckily, this is a friend of mine that is a computer genius(my mother never thought one would be able to associate the word 'genius' to any of my friends

So this thread can probably be closed, just not sure if moderator is supposed to close