Dear Soer, the first thing you must do is make sure the speed frequency of your RAM matches the frequency of the front side bus on your mother board. You can find this information in the motherboard manual or use software like cpu-z or sandra which will provide you with a wealth of information. Also, make sure that you are within the limit of how much RAM your motherboard can support! Older motherboards will support up to about 2GB RAM and the rest is useless. New motherboards can support up to 16-32 GB of RAM. For your dads PC i think the RAM may be single channel RAM (DDR) if its not and its dual channel (DDR2) then there might be a bios setting to change it OR your motherboard might not support dual channel RAM OR the RAM might be faulty. In any case i suggest you contact the manufacturer of your motherboard and whoever makes the RAM. I think the same applies for the RAM installed in your PC. Best of luck.