Tom, I had not done anything to the computer, it is not even a year old yet and one day for no particular reason it started with the possessed phone thing. I thought perhaps it occured because of one of the Microsoft updates. As i am not comfortable playing around with stuff I did not attempt to reformat anything.
Coconut Monkey, your solution did not seem as scary as Toms, so I gave hitting the del key a go, I got the set up screen and got scared (giggles), but I found the option you mentioned. It was enabled, and now i have set it to disabled, tested the phone and all seems to be ok, though I have to wonder how it managed to enable itself in the first place.
A big thank you to both of you for taking the time to help.
~Lilac