When you say Motherboard BIOS type stuff, do you mean that you haven't updated the BIOS, or that you haven't got all of the drivers for your Motherboard?
The link to the CQ Society forum isn't describing a bug, but more of a situation of the software not 'knowing' how to optimally utilize available architecture. There is a very good explanation as to the way your system works:
NUMA
Hyper-Threading
This said, the software you are using makes use of a Multi Core system in only a limited way. Please consider this explanation from the makers of 3D Studio Max:
AutoDesk Software
Additionally, V-Ray, from what I could find, doesn't make any claims anywhere to benefitting from Multi Core systems.
So, judging from the different sites I've read through on this issue, Software Vendors haven't yet caught up with the kit you are running. This is understandable, because the software you use so skilfully is incredibly intricate to begin with. To make it capable of utilizing an advanced system such as yours, it would need to be taken back to the drawing board and be rewritten from the ground up. On saying this, it does appear that AutoDesk are implementing these features gradually with newer releases.
I wish this answer could have been a solution, but you can take comfort from the fact that it doesn't appear to be a fault with your system.