Problem 1-
Use the xp pro disk to boot to.
Enter recovery console
Type"fixboot",try loading
If this works the ntldr tree was probably affected
If it doesn't work restart and again use recovery console
Type FixMBR
This tries to repair the MBR but I've only seen it work twice,I think
If these two fail then continue to install XP PRO but repair the installation instead of a clean install.You keep all files but it replaces all the system files.If this doesn't work you should back up your data to another HD as your current one *may* be on the way out.
Problem 2-Try resetting BIOS to Defaults
If it is a dell pc run a Diagnostic on the HD's and the RAM
Take out the HD's and attach to another pc already running windows
Let me know how things go to this point