Thanks for input. As noted in original post, the issue
IS that INTEL specs indicate it supports 800 FSB
but user experience is that some boards need a BIOS update flash to actually even POST. I have been down this road before with O/C projects where mobo requires latest BIOS to support higher spec'd CPUs released after the mobo was. Cure is as noted; get board to POST with lower spec CPU, flash with latest BIOS, install higher spec CPU. The cooler issue is a nuisance. The processor came from geeks.com but had no cooler/fan 'mated' with it and geeks.com had no INTEL H/S fans (I ordered that from eBay as well for $20). I inquired with their tech supp and they were clueless if they had any coolers that worked with the INTEL boards. (sigh). Alas I wasn't shocked. I have already tried a new mobo and CPU swap so it is consistent that BIOS on the boards is the issue. (yes, also swapped P/S, DDR, vid card w/o success). I will post my experience with the 400 FSB Celeron when it arrives.
Contrary to the sailors saying ('It's not about the final destination, it's about the journey') I just wish I could tell the wife she is good to go loading up her nano iPod with tunes.
Moral thus far is I shoulda stuck with mwave.com (always a pleasure) and ABIT mobo (not always perfect but I know the support and info is on their site).