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Real-life Cyber-affairs
Yet another report suggests that marriages are splitting up and people are blaming the Internet or Cyberspace for their real-life troubles. There's an account on British newspaper the Guardian's website here, at the end of which there is a reasonably comprehensive listing of actual incidents reported in the press of this stuff happening.
Personally I'd love to see it go away. No, I don't mean marital split-up; of course I'd love to see that go away too, but it's not a realistic aim. No, I'd like to see an end to people drawing this illusory line between 'Cyberspace' and 'real life'.
I am, at the moment, typing. The site onto which I'm typing is in New York so I guess I'm working in Cyberspace, but do you know what? It's still me. Likewise if I go online and pretend to be someone else, misrepresenting myself for personal gain or something (which I never do, but as a for instance) then guess what - I'm being deceitful. It's not Cyberdeceit, it's real life deceit. It's still me.
Please, people. Can we stop pretending there are different rules when we're talking about Cyberspace? There. Just. Aren't.
Personally I'd love to see it go away. No, I don't mean marital split-up; of course I'd love to see that go away too, but it's not a realistic aim. No, I'd like to see an end to people drawing this illusory line between 'Cyberspace' and 'real life'.
I am, at the moment, typing. The site onto which I'm typing is in New York so I guess I'm working in Cyberspace, but do you know what? It's still me. Likewise if I go online and pretend to be someone else, misrepresenting myself for personal gain or something (which I never do, but as a for instance) then guess what - I'm being deceitful. It's not Cyberdeceit, it's real life deceit. It's still me.
Please, people. Can we stop pretending there are different rules when we're talking about Cyberspace? There. Just. Aren't.
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