You could just take the average using pylab:
>>> import pylab
>>> grid = pylab.array[[0, 0, 0, 0, 0],
[0, 1, 1, 1, 0],
[0, 1, 1, 0, 0],
[0, 1, 1, 1, 0],
[0, 0, 0 ,0, 0]]
>>> ( pylab.average(pylab.array(grid.nonzero())[1,:]), pylab.average(pylab.array(grid.nonzero())[0,:]) )
(1.875, 2.0)