This isn't actually the absolute best list, but it's very extensive, I don't think this will fall under the "advertising" rule, in fact I don't even have my own graphics site in the list lol.
The brushes were updated and checked in May, the fonts I checked on June 5th, the tutorial sites were last updated and checked 11/04 so all links were up to date as of those dates.
If you see something not there just post and I can add it in, they should be in alphabetical order also. Me and another member at a graphics site are currently going through a list of tutorials at least twice this long and includes other program specific tutorials, we're making sure they're all current then going to add them.
Hope this helps someone out.
~ Photoshop ~
Absolute Cross
Arraich
AQ Art & Design
Computer Arts
Designs by Mark
Distortion
Dreamfinity
Dubtastic
Effectlab
Eyeball-Design
Eyeland
Eyes on Design
Eyewire
GoodTutorials.com
GFX Lab
GFX School
Graphics Soft
Fundy
My Janee
Nebulus
N-Sane
Perfect Pixels
Phong
Photoshop Cafe
Photoshop Techniques
Pixel 2 Life
Planet Photoshop
PS Workshop
RTideas
Screaming-Art
Shadowness
Spoono
Spyroteknik
Stewart Studio
Striding Studio
Team Photoshop
Tutorial Forums
Tutorialized
Tutorial Outpost
Wasted Youth
The Webmachine
Webteknique
~ PHOTOSHOP BRUSHES ~
7-days.net
Annika Von Holdt / The fifth muse
Aurora
Darkwaif
Deviantart
Dubtastic
ex-posed
FinFond
Fragiledecay
fredfarm
itsuji
linzeestyle
Misprintedtype
Oritsuru
painillusion
Photoshop brushes
Photoshop road map
pixelchick
rebel-heart some navigation required
Secret Loft("V" has the brushes)
Sidez
Tere-art
Unknown
~ FONTS ~
fonts-free
Swipenet(Not in english, but a couple nice looking fonts)
lcrfonts]
Type Oasis
Simply The Best
1001 free fonts
4our Degrees(Lot more than fonts also)
Abstract Fonts
Acid Fonts
Ænigma fonts
Astigmatic
Bionic Type
DaFont
Digital Graphic Labs (scrool a tad to see link)
Dingbat Pages (The name says it for what you'll find here, some cool stuff)
Bitmap
Ekstan Webgraphics
Flashkit
Font File
Font Files
Font Freak
Fontastic
Typewriter Fonts
Girls Who Wear Glasses
Handwriting & Symbolic
Happy Hour Fonts
Lady Sunshines World
Larabie Fonts
Matchfonts
Nicks Fonts
Old Fonts
Rotodesign Fonts
Sharkshock
Stimueye Fonts
The Flea Pit Movie font database.