you are in luck i had the same problem, until yesterday. I found this article and modified the code to, instead of deleteing the records it shows them ( http://www.webthang.co.uk/tuts/tuts_dmx/rob3/rob3.asp ).
insted of
cDelete.CommandText = "DELETE FROM tblTemp WHERE tblTemp.RecordID IN (" & sDelete & ")"
change to
cDelete.CommandText = "Select * FROM tblTemp WHERE tblTemp.RecordID IN (" & sDelete & ")"
remove
Response.Redirect("delete.asp")
and loop like any other recordset
hope it helps!