If I check from Flash it opens in new window (tab) never mind what i wrote, but when I check in browser only _blank works

Notice whether you used double quotes

I just C/P your example and rearranged link to work in my case, everything else is same as yours

I checked twice, it is working for me. Something going wrong, please check with both "" and without "". Ensure you given _ (underscore) before self.

So after some time I figured that it should be tested on someone else's computer so in the end it seems that I had some problems with Flash, I reinstalled it and it all works great now. Thanks!!

a query, now that the q is solved, I couldnt asnwer it so didnt waste anyones time
How big is the flash for this menu, in KB, ?

7.75 KB is the biggest button

7kb for 1 4state button, thats much less than thought,
but more than a css button, thats 125 bytes,
flash buttons look so good though
daydream, doodle, think,

can flash buttons be reused, same 'swf(?)' flash file different parameters

I think it cannot be reused in a way you described (not sure). CSS buttons are really cool I have to admit but if you have a page that is really boring (because user likes the boring colors e.g.) then I think it's good to break through the boring part with some extra buttons, that's why I used Flash

Thank you