Top 5 Pointers for a Successful Date

[buchik_27]

Here are five important tips to achieve a successful date I would like to share:

Pointer #1 - Avoid dating occasionally.

This result to what we call "dating fatigue". Dating is an continuous activity (until you find that perfect match) and so recharging your energies, building self-confidence and maintaining optimism levels high must be practiced. I advise that you schedule your date in time frames to regain your renewed vigor if necessary.

Pointer #2 - ENJOY your date as much as possible

Always strive to enjoy dating activities even if it shows signs of not being compatible with your date. Remember, this is one aspect of socializing and grab the opportunity by spending time in the company of new acquaintances who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The truth is, most people are interesting in a way and this may be the chance to look for new friends!

Pointer #3 - Never divulge your entire being on a first date.

Basically, we tend to be more interested with individuals who are mysterious and the thrill of the chase when dating. Therefore, if you are looking for a more serious relationship, sex is out of the agenda in a first date. As your date progress and the person starts to fall for you within a reasonable time, then there is a higher percentage that real love may bloom.

Pointer #4 - Do join a quality Internet dating community

Expand your network. Join quality dating sites wherein upon registration, the site gets extensive of not just your personal preferences but with the preferences you wanted from your ideal partner. Beware of dating sites that shows a lot of gorgeous girls but after joining you find that these are just dummy members. For those who wanted to go across the globe, there are dating domains from that site to choose from. But before looking for a foreign date, I advise you to study a brief culture background. Most of these relationships go down the drain due to culture incompatibility.

Pointer #5 –Expand your dating network and practice socializing skills

Once you have set your network, take time and check your mail occasionally. Even if you never dated online, it is a start to boost your confidence and spirits, allowing you to practice your opening lines and conversation skills. Internet dating is really fun, adventurous and secure. It introduces you to the world of dating safely and gently.

If you need more tips or advise please respond on this thread and I will try to help you with the best of my knowledge.

Thanks!

[mattyd]

Here are five important tips to achieve a successful date I would like to share:

Pointer #1 - Avoid dating occasionally.

This result to what we call "dating fatigue". Dating is an continuous activity (until you find that perfect match) and so recharging your energies, building self-confidence and maintaining optimism levels high must be practiced. I advise that you schedule your date in time frames to regain your renewed vigor if necessary.

Pointer #2 - ENJOY your date as much as possible

Always strive to enjoy dating activities even if it shows signs of not being compatible with your date. Remember, this is one aspect of socializing and grab the opportunity by spending time in the company of new acquaintances who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The truth is, most people are interesting in a way and this may be the chance to look for new friends!

Pointer #3 - Never divulge your entire being on a first date.

Basically, we tend to be more interested with individuals who are mysterious and the thrill of the chase when dating. Therefore, if you are looking for a more serious relationship, sex is out of the agenda in a first date. As your date progress and the person starts to fall for you within a reasonable time, then there is a higher percentage that real love may bloom.

Pointer #4 - Do join a quality Internet dating community

Expand your network. Join quality dating sites wherein upon registration, the site gets extensive of not just your personal preferences but with the preferences you wanted from your ideal partner. Beware of dating sites that shows a lot of gorgeous girls but after joining you find that these are just dummy members. For those who wanted to go across the globe, there are dating domains from that site to choose from. But before looking for a foreign date, I advise you to study a brief culture background. Most of these relationships go down the drain due to culture incompatibility.

Pointer #5 –Expand your dating network and practice socializing skills

Once you have set your network, take time and check your mail occasionally. Even if you never dated online, it is a start to boost your confidence and spirits, allowing you to practice your opening lines and conversation skills. Internet dating is really fun, adventurous and secure. It introduces you to the world of dating safely and gently.

If you need more tips or advise please respond on this thread and I will try to help you with the best of my knowledge.

Thanks!

Your post was nice and thoughtful. I believe most people never give any thought to any of the points you raised.

I met my lovely girl on a dating site. Our relationship is not "virtual" -- we have been together in NYC for 1-year now. :cheesy:

Thanks again...

sharky_machine

[jwenting]

Whatever happened to just being yourself?
If you need some company to arrange a mate for your and a book or website to tell you how to "snatch them up", maybe you should better stay single.

[mattyd]

Whatever happened to just being yourself?
If you need some company to arrange a mate for your and a book or website to tell you how to "snatch them up", maybe you should better stay single.

Well, personally, I can say I never needed "help" and I never aimed to "snatch them up". There are many routes and options especially nowadays including, you are correct, staying single. It just stands to reason that as our society grows and technology evolves these options will grow as well. How one finds "the one" (if that is what you wish) and how one accoplishes this (in a reasonable manner) is a personal endeavor and preference. ;)

[jwenting]

Sure, but to expect to magically find that "one" by visiting a website....

[mattyd]

Sure, but to expect to magically find that "one" by visiting a website....

Mathematically you are correct, but: I met my girlfiend on a dating site; we lived 2,000+- miles apart at the time (I in Texas, she in NYC). Upon graduating from school I moved to NYC so 1) I could begin my career 2) We could be together. That was one-year ago. What we have is splendid, lovely, and because it is ordained by God-- what can I say? Blessed. Am I lucky? No-- I do not believe in luck. It is actually quite a living miracle that grows day-by-day. It takes work and it is quite fun, intellectually stimulating, and spiritually fired-up. Now, if I could only get my career going as good as my relationship :lol:;).

Regards,
sharkey_machine

[DMR]

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Doing so skates on the very hairy edge of violating more than one of our posting rules.

The discussion itself is fine, but the links are not. I've given the benefit of doubt here and only removed the links, but further link posting will result in post deletions and infractions.

- Thanks.