DIVORCES
Why are so many young people getting divorced these days?
I think some of the main reasons are as follows:
1.They get married for the wrong reasons
2.They are not totally ready for committment
3.They are not fully matured or independent and rely on too many wrong advices outside marriage.
4.They are not fully educated on the important things of marriage.
5.God is not involved in the marriages.
Among some of the reasons above, young couples seems to believe that marriages are free of argument and problems, and when problems arise, they do not know how to deal with them. As a result of that, the problems are left unsolved and grows into bigger problems.
SOLUTIONS TO PROBLEMS
- If there is a disagreement or problem, either party should never go to sleep upset with each other. You should endeavour to reconcile before going to sleep, even if someone has to take wrong for right.
- If the problems are out of control within the both of you, seek counselling in an effort to keep the marriage alive.
HEALTHY MARRIAGE TIPS
1.Don't leave all the House Chores to one person, share them up;
2.Go out for dinner occasionally
3.Take Romantic Strolls on the beach from time to time
4.Compliment each other as much as possible, make each other know how special they are
5.If there is a disagreement, work it out among yourselves, dont let in unnecessary outside parties
6.Support each other in all beneficial areas
7.Live Holy Lives
Once these tips are followed, i am sure that they will be less divorces. The aim is to be together until death separates you all