I think it is their problem. Something that expensive just doesn't tear up in that short amount of time.
I think it's pretty obvious you're not going to change your mind about it, but you have to consider this: You're paying for the design of the unit. You're paying for Intel's chipset. You're paying for an LCD screen, etc.
You have not accepted the well-known fact that computer hardware, no matter how old, how new, will break. Ever heard of MTBF? Mean Time Between Failure? Basically, a manufacturer takes a certain number of components, and they run them for a specified period of time. I'm not sure of the exact formula, but essentially, manufacturers take that number of drives, and they calculate how many failed in that period of time, and they're able to provide a MTBF estimate for manufacturers. Entire consumer goods, like TVs, computers, etc, have an overall MTBF, and manufacturers look at things like that.
Manufacturers realize things break-- that's why they offer Extended Warranties. It's always a Win situation for the Manufacturer, but it's a crap-shoot for the consumer;If I get this and never need it, I've wasted money. But, if I don't have it when I need it, I'm SOL.
I've worked with computers for a number of years, and I've issued my fair share of warranty repairs, as well as redeemed a fair few of my own. I'm not going to disagree with you about how it sucks when a part goes out-- I can empathize with you there. But, what I wish more people would do is enlighten themselves with the fact that technology breaks. It breaks easily, it breaks often. Everyone has anecdotes about that one system they had that was a workhorse, and never broke, but for the most part, stuff breaks, and it will need to be fixed. If you take this enlightened approach, you will see that an extended warranty for something like this isn't a waste of money; In fact, you'll realize that if you're offered the warranty, and you do not exercise wise judgement in what level of security with your device you can stand, then it's your fault when you're outside of that warranty period, and you're not covered because you thought it was just another attempt for them to get your money.