select mem_id, user
from members
where (bypass_purchase = 'P' or bypass_purchase ='Y')
and not (mem_id in select mem_id from position_1)
or
select mem_id, user
from members left join position_1
on members.mem_id=position_1.mem_id
where (bypass_purchase = 'P' or bypass_purchase ='Y')
and position_1.mem_id is null