sorry i did have googles one but it would not work. I was using the php plugin but the javascript one loads i just can work out how to validate it before sending ?
actual sending of input
<!DOCTYPE html>
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<head>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1" />
<meta name="viewport" content="initial-scale=1, maximum-scale=1" />
<meta name="viewport" content="width=device-width" />
<title>Emailing sending to myself</title>
</head>
</head>
<body>
<?php
// Your code here to handle a successful verification
$email_to = "somewhere@email.com";
$name = $_POST["name"];
$email = $_POST["email"];
$url = $_POST["url"];
$message = $_POST["message"];
$text = "NAME: $name<br>
EMAIL: $email<br>
URL: $url<br>
MESSAGE: $message";
$headers = "MIME-Version: 1.0" . "\r\n";
$headers .= "Content-type:text/html; charset=utf-8" . "\r\n";
$headers .= "From: <$email>" . "\r\n";
mail($email_to, "Message", $text, $headers);
?>
</body>
</html>
the code for input
<form action="send.php" id="contact-form" class="form" method="post">
<ul>
<li>
<p><strong>Name</strong> <em>(*)</em></p>
<input name="name" type="text" class="requiredField" />
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>E-mail</strong> <em>(*)</em></p>
<input name="email" type="text" class="requiredField email" />
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>URL</strong> <em>(Optional)</em></p>
<input name="url" type="text" />
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>Message</strong> <em>(*)</em></p>
<textarea name="message" rows="20" cols="30" class="requiredField"></textarea>
</li>
<li class="submit-button">
<input class="submit" type="reset" name="reset" value="Reset"/>
<input name="submit" id="submitted" value="Send Message" class="submit" type="submit" />
</li>
</ul>
</form><!--END CONTACT FORM-->
i placed both javascript and php plugin above submit.