And try to use Parameters, so you dont assign values directly into the query, but in query you only write parameters, which you then add bellow.
Example:
OleDbCommand com = new OleDbCommand(@"UPDATE cus SET cus_name = @param1, order = @param2 WHERE no = @param3", con);
com.Parameters.Add("@param1", OleDbType.VarChar, 50).Value = textBox4.Text;
com.Parameters.Add("@param2", OleDbType.VarChar, 50).Value = textBox6.Text;
com.Parameters.Add("@param3", OleDbType.VarChar, 50).Value = textBox7.Text;
try
{
com.ExecuteNonQuery();
}
catch(Excpeption ex)
{
//show exception if needed
}
Change the type of parameters to exact type (or varchar, or int, or... - checkl your database).