i am so confused were am i? i was only trying to find a site where you can chat to yer mates like msn... can u help me?

Depends on what 'yer mates' use: MSN, Yahoo, ICQ, etc?
Or are you looking for a chat-site?

This is an IT-discussion forum. Of course you are welcome to stay here and chat to us :)

May I ask how you came here (what did you google/yahoo)?

i am so confused were am i? i was only trying to find a site where you can chat to yer mates like msn... can u help me?

Oh, you want the site just down the street for that. It's the blue one on the left.

We have an IRC Chat Network button located on the right side of any DaniWeb window. You can chat with people here on DaniWeb.

but they're unlikely to be your "mates" (though they may become so in time).

Welcome to Daniweb!!!

Feel free to stay and relax with friends :):)