I think you got confused, but thats my fault. What i meant by "if you only knew half the story" was early history of Mandela but if you want to know about how i became a self proclaimed " love doctor". You see it's a joke but it has a back story. I have helped friends of mine with bf problems. In one case i helped one of my friends in getting out of an bad relationship. She didnt want to be with him anymore but he threatens to kill himself if she left him. He has a history of self harm that she knew about cuz they were great friend so him threatening to kill himself was serious and scare the crap out of her. At the time i didn't know any of this, only that she was becoming increasingly unhappy and i had a hunch that it was because of him. Once i got the story i told her" look, this can't go on, its hurting you both." I promised her if she broke up with i would make sure he wouldn't hurt himself. I did and. Everything was ok.
Your more of a psychologist than a "love doctor"...