Selecting data across multiple tables is done with a JOIN statement. There are several types of JOIN, the most basic is the INNER JOIN. This allows you to join two tables with a common set of columns. For example, if your main table has an ID field called family_id, and each member of the family is stored in another table that contains the family_id to indicate which family they belong to, then you can do this:
SELECT * FROM families
INNER JOIN family_members
ON families.family_id = family_members.family_id
There are millions of SQL examples on the web that can tell you how to join in other ways. Hope I have helped!
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