passing by reference is when you want to do pass a variable to a function that you want to take a new value and be used back in the calling function, ie
int MyInt;
Function(MyInt);
cout << MyInt;
In this case, we pass MyInt to Function by reference, then we can use MyInt back in the calling function.
In you're case, you are trying to set the member variables of the class using the mutator function, so there is no need to pass or return anything!
Dave