This isn't actually the absolute best list, but it's very extensive, I don't think this will fall under the "advertising" rule, in fact I don't even have my own graphics site in the list lol.
The brushes were updated and checked in May, the fonts I checked on June 5th, the tutorial sites were last updated and checked 11/04 so all links were up to date as of those dates.
If you see something not there just post and I can add it in, they should be in alphabetical order also. Me and another member at a graphics site are currently going through a list of tutorials at least twice this long and includes other program specific tutorials, we're making sure they're all current then going to add them.
Hope this helps someone out.
~ Photoshop ~
AQ Art & Design
Designs by Mark
Eyes on Design
Pixel 2 Life
~ PHOTOSHOP BRUSHES ~
Annika Von Holdt / The fifth muse
Photoshop road map
rebel-heart some navigation required
Secret Loft("V" has the brushes)
~ FONTS ~
Swipenet(Not in english, but a couple nice looking fonts)
Simply The Best
1001 free fonts
4our Degrees(Lot more than fonts also)
Digital Graphic Labs (scrool a tad to see link)
Dingbat Pages (The name says it for what you'll find here, some cool stuff)
Girls Who Wear Glasses
Handwriting & Symbolic
Happy Hour Fonts
Lady Sunshines World
The Flea Pit Movie font database.