And with a List it'd do the same, as it creates the Collection based on the result of a database query.
Instead of trying to force something the wrong way, ensure that those database queries yield the results you need.
And no, that's not related to the "insert order in table". It's related to the SQL/JPQL you use to retrieve the data from the table.
Time to learn how to properly use your tools rather than floundering about, trying random things, and digging yourself an ever deeper hole.