Forget about the two I mentioned above. You need to handle the Click event. You need to have your own bool variable to indicate whether the button has been clicked or not, then implement an onClick event handler to set or reset that variable. Something like below. IN the below, IsClicked is a class bool variable. Now wherever you want just look at the IsClicked varialbe.
private: System::Void BuyRadio_Click(System::Object^ sender, System::EventArgs^ e) {
if( IsClicked )
IsClicked = false;
else
IsClicked = true;
}