ok this might solve my other problem.
I have the IDE cable plugged into my mobo and then the other 2 connectors, the first connector goes to my cdrw which right now is not plugged in and has no jumpers, the last one on the cable goes to my dvdrw which is plugged in and has no jumpers in. The dvdrw works fine now, but if I plug the cdrw in I lose the dvdrw. I changed the IDE cable already 2 times for that fact. In the bios it shows that the dvdrw is in secondary ide, when I plug the cdrw in it shows that in the secondary ide and the dvdrw is gone. Which spot on the ide cable is ment for the master drive and the slave drive?