Bo, I found the red cross icon in shell32.dll [most system icons are stored in there]....now only if you are comfortable with going into registry.. ie have done it before... go start, run, type regedit and OK.
Click on My Computer at top, then go Edit, Find, type in..
shell32.dll,240
... and tell me the keys it occurs in.
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