Define hardcore? I got to Prestige Master in Black Ops 2 on the Xbox, and am now working my way through the Ghosts ranks having completed the campaign over a couple of days. I completed GTA V in a week and am working my way to a 100% rating. Both games purchased on day of release, before 9am. I also have a custom modded Xbox 360 controller etc etc.
I do not consider myself a hardcore gamer though. Have no intention of splashing the cash on an Xbox One, have never owned a gaming PC, do have a life :)
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