Women more likely to be online stalkers than men

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The usual image of a stalker is some creepy bloke obsessed by some TV star, following them around and making unwanted advances. When it comes to the online realm, however, it would appear that we might have to redraw that stereotype.

New has revealed that while 50 percent of the Brits polled admitted to using search sites and social networks in order to spy on former partners and enemies alike, women were more likely to be doing the online stalking than men.

Yes, some 62 percent of women 'fessed up to searching for an ex-partner using online tools while only 46 percent of men had done so.

Other interesting figures from this research include the fact that 93 percent of people admit to searching for celebrities online, and 54 percent for an ex-partner. Worryingly, when asked “if you have searched for an ex-partner online, have you searched for that ex-partner on more than one occasion?” over a quarter of people agreed.

The reasons became clearer, when they were asked “if you have searched for an ex-partner online, what were your reasons?” with 'curiosity' being the most popular answer, quickly followed by jealousy.

Tellingly, some 9 percent were honest enough to admit that they had done it because they knew they would not be caught by using online tools.

Steffen Ruehl, CEO of , told us "Curiosity is an interesting thing, it is human nature to investigate. It can make people search for people they may dislike, or people they have had personal relationships with in the past. The fact that so many Brits use the internet and services like ours to provide them with undetectable access to other people’s lives is a fact of today’s online society."

At least the figures answer the question as to .

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This thread cites a poll (shared by ) implying women report more online checks of ex-partners than men. That finding sparks useful debate, but a single headline-sized stat does not settle why a pattern appears. Survey results reflect who was asked, how questions were worded, and what respondents felt comfortable admitting — all of which shape the outcome.

Methodological points worth keeping in mind: self-reporting can under- or over-estimate behavior; "searching" covers a wide range of actions from a one-off curiosity check to repeated tracking; age, platform choice and sample selection strongly affect results; and cultural norms can change what people call "stalking." As notes, emotional factors are one hypothesis; platform affordances and differential visibility of profiles are equally plausible. Light responses like 's show how quickly the topic slides from study to banter.

Practical steps for reducing unwanted findability and for managing reputation:

  • Run searches for full name, common nicknames and past usernames; check image search results.
  • Lock down social accounts: set profile visibility to friends-only and enable tag approvals where available.
  • Delete or deactivate dormant accounts; request removal of old posts and images from sites or site admins.
  • Strip location/EXIF metadata from photos before uploading.
  • Monitor mentions with alerts and periodic incognito checks.
  • Build positive, authoritative presences (professional profiles, portfolio pages) so current, controlled content ranks higher.
  • Use strong passwords and two-factor authentication to prevent account compromise.

Treat the poll as a conversation starter rather than proof that one gender is inherently more likely to "stalk" online. For Search Engine Strategies and social-media practice the useful takeaway is actionable: control what is findable, audit digital footprints regularly, and design follow-up studies that separate frequency, intent and platform effects before drawing firm conclusions.

kanaku 60 Posting Whiz

Maybe this is a good point for assuming that women take LONGER to get over a relationship than men. Which is why we would still care about our ex-partners.

We're more 'constant' and loyal creatures. (I'd like to think) =P

jamescolin 0 Newbie Poster

How can i answers of 5 question while i'm not a woman lolz,
well nice article

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