Wish you too happy new year! Contact few single dating sites from your regions those which are just started up to place ads of your site or link, these upcoming dating sites normally charge very less to place ads since they're just growing. Also promote it through social networking sites creating your own community.
Just keep few simple things in mind while trying to increase traffic on your site:
1. Traffic will grow slowly and not overnight.
2. Dont forget to use means other than internet to promote your site. Like newspaper advertisement and radio advertisment.
3. Identify your target visitors and make marketing plan accordingly.
4. Use free resources as much as possible as they only demand your time and not your moeny.
5. Start taking help of your family and friend to spread word of mouth.
6. Start publishing success stories and testimonials of your satisfied customers.
And many more things...
To increase traffice use:
- Link Sharing
- Back linking
- Get your site search engine optimized
- Submit to directories
- Submission to social bookmark websites (use Bookmark Submitter Pro)
I am quite sure that you will be able to increase traffic to your site.