How rude are iPhone users?

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Users of the iPhone have stood accused of many things, from being more interested in form than function through to having more money than sense. However, the iPhone bashing has taken an unexpected turn as new research suggests that smartphone users are becoming increasingly rude both at home and in the workplace.

The study of more than one thousand workers in the UK, conducted by social email provider harmon.ie, suggests that the abundance of iPhones and other "electronic devices for collaboration" is directly leading to poor office etiquette and often downright rudeness.

The research revealed that 41 percent of workers continue to use their smartphones during face-to-face meetings in order to send instant messages, reply to text messages, check email or listen to voice-mail.Seventy percent do the same if those meetings are virtual rather than face-to-face. Thirty one percent will disrupt those face-to-face meetings to answer an incoming call, although 40 percent readily admitted it was considered rude to do so. Nineteen percent will ignore direct instructions from senior colleagues at work to disconnect calls.

Eighty five percent will stay connected to work stuff during the weekend, 79 percent during the evening, and 74 percent while on holiday. If you thought that was intrusive, 48 percent said they stay online in bed. Apparently, 35 percent of those asked claim to be permanently connected to the office and never disconnect their devices no matter what. A third of those asked thought that they might lose their competitive edge if they disconnect from their inbox for just 30 minutes or less, while a further 20 percent fear losing that edge if cut off from email for just five minutes.

"It would appear that we have a classic case of double standards in the workplace, with 82 percent complaining about other peoples' tendencies to disrupt proceedings by answering a mobile phone, tweeting, sending an instant message, responding to emails or even just updating their social status - which incidentally nine percent of our sample confessed they did" said David Lavenda, Vice President of Product Strategy at harmon.ie. "Yet, rather ironically, 70 percent of those that rudely interrupt meetings themselves would be offended if someone did the same thing to them. Clearly, the perceived pressure to stay connected has led many people to neglect their manners".

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This thread quickly shows the issue is less “iPhone users” and more the habits phones make easy: constant partial attention, blurred work/life boundaries, and mixed expectations in meetings. Several members (notably , , , and ) mix research with personal anecdotes; the useful next step is turning those observations into simple, durable practices.

Two empirical points worth bearing in mind. First, experimental work finds the mere presence of a personally owned smartphone reduces available cognitive capacity—people do worse on working-memory tasks when their phone is nearby even if it is not being used. (Ward et al., 2017). Second, interruption research shows that fragmented work raises stress and imposes real switching costs on attention and performance. (Mark et al., CHI 2008).

Practical, low-friction practices that follow from those findings: make device boundaries explicit (a meeting agenda can state the device norm), schedule focused blocks and fixed inbox-checking windows so messages stop driving behavior, and use system tools that silence notifications during meetings or deep work (iOS Focus / Do Not Disturb is built for this). For organizations, a short written mobile-device guideline or cell-phone policy clarifies expectations and avoids double standards; HR templates and guidance can be adapted rather than invented from scratch.

A closing note: brand is irrelevant to etiquette. Social and managerial norms matter. Clear, consistent rules plus leaders who model them restore attention, reduce needless interruptions, and remove the “rudeness” label from ordinary smartphone use.

Sources: Adrian F. Ward, “Brain drain: The mere presence of one’s own smartphone...” (author page and article overview).
Gloria Mark et al., “The cost of interrupted work: More speed, more stress” (CHI 2008).
Apple Support — Focus / Do Not Disturb on iPhone.
SHRM — Company cell phone policy (practical policy template).

swebsitedesign -2 Newbie Poster

Thats true it has become a trend to use iphones during meeting lectures
resulting in quite irresponsible results

blackcathacker 7 Junior Poster

I've used an Android system all my life.
I use my phone in the evening, in the morning (no more than 10 minutes each), and during break in school.
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happygeek 2,411 Most Valuable Poster Team Colleague Featured Poster

I am guilty of taking my iPhone to bed with me, and checking news/email last thing at night and first thing in the morning. I also listen to the radio on my iPhone when bathing, and have been known to check my email/texts at the dinner table.

However, I do not answer calls during meetings, or interrupt conversations to check my iPhone. In fact, it spends more time on silent/vibrate than it does otherwise and what's more I spend more time using it when I am alone than when I am in company. But then I'm quite sociable for a grumpy geek...

maninaction -9 Junior Poster in Training

Not in exact but in someways they behave like that.

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