Is your WiFi secured? If secured with WEP, change the security to WPA and select a strong passphrase. If not secure, change it to WPA and select a strong passphrase. If already WPA, change the passphrase to a strong one that is difficult to guess.
Also, go into your router web interface and disable remote access/monitoring, and change the admin password.
Finally, what is the make/model of your router/wifi-access-point?